When in doubt...

When in doubt it is good to think before you act because the possibility can be either ways. Acting based on some perception or assumption is prone to risks, financially, professionally or in relationships. There are so many things we don't know and we cannot expect know everything.

Assuming something bad in case of doubt will do no good to us.
We should restrict our actions to things we know, or have experienced
anything. Beyond that is our imagination or a possibility.

Many times certain things are true, but people imagine other things around it. These
are figaments of ones hatred or imagination. Being able to identify them needs some introspection... on what is actually true vs. the imagined.

We need to stop where we think imagination starts.
It is good quality to imagine if you are a writer.
You can imagine, go deep into it... and create an illusionary world
which other people enjoy.. or imagine.

But writers have a clear understanding or what they imagine and whats real.
Thats why they are successful, else they would be just hallucinating
and not able to do anything concrete.
I know there is a unusual enjoyment in this sort of imagination
and gossiping is also part of it.
But we have to refrain from this sort of imagination because it also eats you up internally with negativity.
It becomes a habit and the mind keeps craving more for it, more and more of it,
insatiable hunger for the nagative things to be imagined, discussed and tries to see bad in everything which only leaves your heart burnt and bombarded with sadness.

If anyone has done anything bad to you, forgive him for the bad things... real forgiveness also means one stops thinking and saying bad about the other person.

We secretly like criticizing others... but it is bad thing to do. Criticism is good when it is directed in a positive way to improve things. Otherwise it is just a waste of time.